What my Bipolar Love does to me

Its very hard to deal with a loved one that has this disorder and the after effects it has on me can sometimes bring everything tumbling down. I have lots of fights with Yo Yo and sometimes I get depressed and really do not know how to handle things. I also find myself riding the roller coaster with her for good times as well. Every thing is either really good or really bad. I not sure what to think but sometimes I fell the same way she does. I not bipolar myself but her mood swings have a lot to do with the way I feel. I am writing this blog to help me deal with these issues and hoping someone might give me some suggestions or maybe even I can help someone myself.

YoYo out for Ice Cream

Yo Yo called me at work about 7pm telling me to meet her near her moms so she could take her out for Ice Cream. I know its a lie, but I never question her or confront her. She as for 25 dollars, I said for Ice Cream. She said and I need to buy some pot to comb my nerves. Its about 10 bucks for her pot and I know she is a lot less dramatic when she smokes some. I gave her the money and put in 16 for gas. She drove off and I headed home.

Received a call about 9 pm saying she was done eating Ice cream and had on more stop and would be home within the hour. She then call about 10:30 and said she was on her way and would be at home in 30 minutes. Went to bed and she woke me up coming in at 2:30 am and said for me to wake her up in the morning. Did not give me a time but I did not pay her any attention cause I was half a sleep.

In the Morning She woke me up about 5:50 complaining that I did not wake her up and she was saying pretty mad. I went back to sleep and she woke me up and complained again. I had no idea what time to wake her up, I was up at 5:13 taking a leak but thought it was to early.

She called me at lunch and said she got a A on her exam. I guess staying up late and smoking pot help her. I know I would have flunked the exam. But she is happy at this moment. One thing you got to remember about a bipolar person is that they are really happy or really mad or really sad there is no middle ground.

Bipolar lunch moment

Was at Tom Thumb getting me some lunch and I get a call from Yo Yo yelling at me because I locked the door to the house and she was at Medicare getting some pills. She was upset because our Daughter did not have a key (she gave it to her mom) and she told me take care of it. The only problem is I don't have a key neither and I call back telling her its still 1 hour and half before she gets out, but she just yells and does not give me a chance to call. So I rush in the car to get to the school ( I am 45 miles away and I needed to get back to work so I would not lose any overtime. Half way there I get a call and said she canceled her appointment and to forget getting her. She was yelling again and I just wasted my whole lunch for an hour.

The good part happens next, I get a call from My daughter that she missed the bus and she cannot get in touch with her mom. Yo Yo forgot the cell at home and I made quick calls to the Land Lord and Gate house to tell her mom if the could. You beat me to the punch and got her phone working and my called my daughter and found out she was still at school.

The funny thing is she usually is mad about nothings and no she was ok about her daughter missing the bus and all is ok, I think she might have gotten some pills.

Up or down luck she was up this time.

I stink

Last Night when I got home Yo Yo told me I sinked the house bad. She lit a candle and gave me a scrub to clean better because she said my pores are open I stinked the house. I asked our Daughter do I smell and she said no. But Yo Yo was right I did stink the house because my pair of shoes I got at Pay less did stink but not me, I am very clean. YoYo is very high strung and I keep queit and my daughter though I was feeling sick. I know if I said some thing to Yo Yo things would have gone bad so I keep quit and ingnored her til she went to sleep. Thank god she has school and she went to bed early. No drama last night. I know things don't sound bad so far but give it time crazy stuff happens everyday.

Its Hard to work

I get called several times every hour sometimes and I lose my concentration working, also when we get in fights it affects me also. I kind of mad now because of her hanging up the phone on me because I did not call her back right away with a phone number she wanted. You see I am her yellow pages also.

Food list

My Daughter called and gave me a list of food, I could hear Yo Yo in the back ground when my daughter said wheat bread, she yelled out wheat bread not white. The list was

Cheese
Chicken Breast Skinless
Milk
Wheat Bread
Campbell Soup (better be campbell soup or she will bite my head off)
Kool Aid
Toilet Paper (she uses about 1 or 2 rolls everyday)


Ok that was the orignal list but in 5 minutes I get a call for 3 more items

Foil
Chocolate Cookies

What you might not know is Yo Yo is mad at me right now because earlier she called and was mad because I stunk up the House ( at least she claims because my clothes stink ed and she wants me to use Epsom salt when I take a bath. Also she wanted a number from her Medicare provider and I did not give it to her in seconds.

About Bipolar Loved One

I happen to be in love with a Woman that's Bipolar and has tons of other Issues, this Blog is a log of all the wonderful and not so wonderful things that happen to me everyday. I am hoping it will help someone like myself deal with a Bi Polar Loved One. I am not going to give any names but the person this blog is about is called Yo Yo (nickname) and I am Cat Man (my nick name). I am not the greatest person in the world nor the worst but I do have lots of adventures everyday. I am not sure if you can hand but keep up with my blog and my tweets and you will be entertained that's for sure. I not the best at this and I not sure if you will really enjoy. But this blog is written to help me get out in the open whats going on with me. I hope it helps you or maybe you can help me. I do love my Yo Yo. I promise to update daily with twitter and Blog post